I use my mom's recipe. Slice the eggplant, about 1/4 inch slices. Bake for about 10 minutes. Then dip the slices in stirred eggs and then in bread crumbs. Then fry the breaded slices. I tend to have a lot of eggplant slices, so with a largish cast iron pan, if I put in 4 slices at a time, I have to fry up at least 6 rounds of 4 slices, or something like that. I'm not very experienced with cooking and especially frying. Sometimes, the eggplant gets oily from all the oil I fry with. Last time I made it, being conscious of all the oil, I tried to use less, but then the breaded slices didn't get fried enough.
When I get to baking with the sauce and cheese, it turned out okay with the "drier" slices, but it wasn't as subjectively good as when I get a little more oil on them when they fry. I don't do this enough to figure out a consistent workflow, so any advice is welcome. I did read a couple of questions here about frying eggplant and the usual response was to first salt the slices and then dry them, but I don't know if that works when I'm going to bake, bread, and then fry the slices. Also, I'm slow, so the process already takes 2+ hours for me to make the dish from start to finish. lol
What is the best way to handle all of this frying with breaded eggplant slices, where I don't use too much oil, but I don't come out too dry either?